Thursday, December 11, 2025

Our 2025

Ballet leg in Buenos Aires

Happy Holidays, everyone! I've neglected my blog this year in favor of writing a novel. I'm almost done with a first draft!

In January, we finished up 7 months of travel, in which we visited 4 continents and 14 countries. My last entry was about our cruise from Europe to South America--and I promised to write about South America, so I'm finally getting to that. 

We rented an apartment for a month in Buenos Aires, near traveling friends who'd also been on the cruise. 

Buenos Aires is a beautiful, green city that is dog friendly (and needs some work on poop cleanup). I loved the cafes, bookstores, huge parks, public art, and bike accessibility. I took Spanish lessons, and after two hours of trying to converse, I was sweaty and exhausted. Fortunately, our apartment had a rooftop pool so I could refresh.

B.A. bike ride

murals everywhere

We next flew to Lima, Peru, and enjoyed the beautiful Miraflores area with its parks and walkways showcasing a stunning sea view. We visited the oldest library in the Americas that has more than 25,000 books and manuscripts, many from the 15th century.

Miraflores


Biblioteca at Convento Santo Domingo


We also went to the Presidential palace for the changing of the guard...which never happened due to governmental problems. We learned that the President had a 90% disapproval rating because in 2022, 50 citizens and a police officer were killed during anti-government protests and 1500 were injured. Peru has had 7 presidents in 6 years, rife with corruption and oppressive tactics. It's pretty depressing to think of how many populations over time have suffered from such governments--and I couldn't help but think about what's happening in the States.

Next stop was Medellin, Colombia for a few days with our friend Mar, whose stunning house has an incredible view of the city that lights up at night. We both felt both the awe and humor in Botero's work in the square outside the wonderful Botero museum. 


a celebration of abundance!

We also spent the day soaking in a variety of plants and creatures in the peaceful Jardin Botanico.

one of Dave's great shots

After 7 months of moving our bodies through space and time on planes, ships, ferries, cars, tuk tuks, taxis, Ubers, and buses, we we ready to plant ourselves back home...


Cerritos Beach sunset

home sweet home

Dan about to dive bomb the ladies at our friends' pool


...which we did until May, when we went on a staycation housesit for a week about an hour away on the Sea of Cortez in Los Barriles. The house was stunning, and the hosts let us use their fun side-by-side to get around.


housesitting has been good to us


Also on that side of Baja, Dave went on a dive trip in Cabo Pulmo, taking advantage of this amazing peninsula we live on.

moray eel on his dive

We've been enjoying our community, friends, and family--and a number of visitors. Dave is still doing yoga and tai chi 2-3 times a week, and I'm loving my twice-a-week Zumba and every Friday aqua aerobics. I launched a women's book group, where we're discussing books by and/or about Latinas, and when possible, we're reading local writers.

In the summer, Dave embarked on a remodeling project on the casita. In order to avoid the dust, noise, and chaos, I took off on a two-month solo trip--that I'm going to write about in my next entry. I promise not to take nearly a year to do it. But first I want to finish the last two chapters of my novel, which is unlike anything I've ever written. I can't wait to get it in your hands.

Happy new year--and love from us both.

Ending with another ballet leg, this one in the Sea of Cortez

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Monday, January 27, 2025

Repositioning Cruise from Europe to S. America

 

our route


For years I'd heard about "repositioning cruises," when a ship is relocated from one part of the world to another. A lot of full-time travelers use them to avoid long flights and jet lag, to enjoy a variety of ports, and to save money. Repo cruises tend to cost about the same as a long-haul flight, with two or more weeks of food, accommodation, and entertainment thrown in.

Chris Englert and Steve Goodfriend, who found the Nomad Life group, told us they planned to travel from Europe to S. America this way in December 2024. This couple has embraced being nomadic and minimalistic for four years, traveling the world full-time with mere carry-ons. They share resources and strategies in their website, You Tube channel, and books.

Dave and I were enticed, as were 15 others, to join them on the Norwegian Star. I'd yet to meet Chris in person, but we had a history of giving each other feedback on our manuscripts. Her blurb appears on the cover of Wanderland.


Tavira Castle was built in the 10th c. by the Moors


Dave and I picked up Chris and Steve in our rental car in the Algarve for the drive to Lisbon, the port of embarkation. When we finally came together in real life, it felt like hugging old friends.

Dave and I had circled back to Portugal after a month in Spain. I adored the seaside village of Tavira, with the idyllic River Gilao running through the town. With its gorgeous architecture, it has the aesthetic of a mini Paris. There, and in the the nearby adorable town of Cabanas, we took ferries to the barrier islands, peaceful places with long beaches and little eateries.

This enjoyment was hard earned after the drama we'd been dealing with, First, I'd had to go to the doctor who administered a shot of cortisone to relieve my ghoulishly swollen eyes due to some kind of allergic reaction. Next, we'd had to change accommodations because of loud and maybe drugged-out neighbors.




monk skulls

And then...our rental car was keyed. We'd parked in a public lot in Faro so we could gawk at the eerie site of over a thousand monk skeletons in the Capel dos Ossos (Bone Chapel). When we returned, we discovered scratches all the way down the driver's side. Soon we learned that the insurance would not cover such damage. I was sure we were screwed out of $1,000 but then thought to call Capital One Visa who assured us such coverage was a card benefit. We sent in a tidal wave of paperwork and are hoping we'll be reimbursed.


Cabanas Island ferry


What a relief when we got the car out of our hands and checked into a Lisbon hotel in the Alfama district where we spent one night, close enough to walk to the cruise port in the next morning. The streets were lively with musicians, vendors, and art. The next morning at sunrise, the Norwegian Star loomed large and lovely from the overlook. 


Look closely and you can see the ship.

Walking down those steep cobblestone streets with our luggage was tricky, but check-in was easy. In fact, the "cattle call" aspects of cruising were absent our full 17 days. Rarely did we have to wait in a line. The ship docked at each of the seven ports, so we never had to take a tender. And, incredibly, it was smooth sailing the entire time--although my body always felt a bit asway.


Women nomads representing!


Being aboard with a group of friends was super fun. (To see a few of them, including us, check out this video.) It was a vibrant social scene with deliberate and spontaneous gatherings. We ate meals together, watched shows and enjoyed live music, danced, played group trivia and cards and Scrabble, swam in the pool and soaked in the jacuzzis, and walked the decks in the sea air. Every morning Dave and I led yoga sessions. It was like adult summer camp!

At any moment, I could hear various languages being spoken. At least 60 nationalities were represented by guests and staff. At one point, a Japanese man and I struck up a conversation. When I mentioned I was originally from California, he said 45 years ago he'd attended San Jose State University to learn English...the very place I used to teach!

There were several restaurants, but I preferred the choices at the buffet. Dave liked it, too, but as a non-lactose guy he struggled with milk being an ingredient in unlikely dishes, such as Asian and Indian food. When he told a server that he was disappointed at the lack of dairy-free desserts, a manager arranged to have one made for him every day. 

Seasoned cruisers seemed to think the ship was "just okay"--but I liked its design and our room, too, with its comfy bed and window looking out to the passing sea. My only complaints: the jacuzzis could have been hotter and the library bigger. I felt like an excited kid the morning we woke up to the ship trimmed in holiday decor.


Christmassy atrium


I enjoyed each port as well. We didn't use the cruise's excursions, which are convenient but expensive and often crowded. Instead, we either hired our own drivers in town or arranged tours with Airbnb Experiences or Get Your Guide. Other times we took self-guided walks using the GPS My City app.

1. In Funchal, Madeira, a Portuguese archipelago in the North Atlantic, I did a walk with Chris and Steve through the picturesque town and seaside.


Chris & Steve at a pandemic "we will hug again" installation.

the market

cathedral

swimmers


2. At Tenerife in Spain's Canary Islands, Dave and I strolled around downtown Santa Cruz then hired a driver to take us to Mount Teide. This volcano is the highest point above sea level in the island of the Atlantic. We drove up the spine of the mountain range with spectacular views around every bend and emerged above the clouds.


Tenerife market


above the clouds


Dave on the volcano

3. Porto Grande, Cabo Verde, an African island country, sits off Dakar, Senegal. At the port-of-call, Mindelo, we walked around downtown, feeling we could have been in the Caribbean. A guide drove us around the island, which was stark outside the city. At Salamansa Beach, we watched kite boarders against a backdrop of volcanic mountains.


dog and fish





4. After we steamed across the Atlantic in three days, crossing the equator, we pulled up to Recife, Brazil. Near a vast beach swarming with families, Dave, Chris, Steve, and I met up with our guide and hopped on bikes. He led us through various communities, from expensive condo high-rises to poor barrios. We saw the Parque de Esculturas, an impressive and surreal sculpture garden created by Brazilian artis Francisco Brennan as a gift to the city in the year 2000. The main piece among the 100 sculptures is the 105-foot tall Crystal Tower made of clay and bronze.

Next we loaded the bikes onto a ponga to cross the channel to the city center. There, at a bustling street fair, we ran into friends from the boat and had lunch together.


approaching Recife


Parque de Esculturas


Love seeing a city by bike.


5.  At Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, a driver took the four of us to the famous beaches of Copacabana and Ipanema. As in Recife, I was amazed by the art everywhere, especially Escadaria Selaron, a landmark public stairway adorned with colorful hand-painted tiled by artist Jorge Selaron. It was a crowded, happy scene.

Next we ventured into Real Gabinete Portuguese de Leitura, aka Portuguese Reading Room, established in 1837 by immigrants. When Chris and I, two writers and book lovers, walked into this magnificent gothic style building with the largest collection of Portuguese books outside of Europe, we were so affected we hugged each other, teary eyed. 


Olympic-era mural



Chris & me at Copacabana with Clarice Lispector (1920-1977),
Jewish Ukrainian novelist who escaped the pogams in Brazil.



Escadera Selaron





One wall of the amazing reading room

6. Montevideo, Uruguay, was a sweet surprise. This city of 1.4 million has a hippy, Art Deco charm. We saw a plaza dedicated to LGBTQ people, tarot card readers, and street markets selling exquisite vintage items. We wandered into an incredible bookstore, Libreria Puro Verso, in a stunning building erected in 1917. I left wanted to see more of Uruguay one day.


a gem of a bookstore


so welcoming to see Pride flags


vintage


tarot


gorgeous architecture


7. Buenos Aires, Argentina, our last stop. We spent a month there, so my next entry will be all things BA.

I wasn't sure how I'd feel about cruising for so long. At about day 14, I felt ready to sleep on a non-swaying bed. But would I do it again? Yes! And I plan to.



If you're interested in our life of housesitting, budget travel, and living in Mexico, check out my books Wanderland: Living the Traveling Life and Call It Wonder: An Odyssey of Love, Sex, Spirit & Travel.