|Hawaiian sunset vows|
This has been a watershed year, my 50th. I'm grateful I was able to spend hours with Mom--snuggling with her, listening to Hawaiian music, and telling her funny and loving stories--before she released into the great beyond.
|Looking very Brady: Mom, sister Ann, me, sister Crystal, early 1970s. (Mom made all these clothes.)|
I'm grateful for the communal rituals that celebrate love and human connection: from Mom's Celebration of Life, to live concerts and birthday parties, to weddings. I was the bride at one wedding this year, and the officiant at another.
|Dave with women of the wedding, an impromptu bachelor party (albeit a few hours late).|
I'm grateful I married Dave, a true partner in life. I'm grateful for all of our incredible adventures with family and friends throughout California, Mexico, and Hawaii. (A shout-out to my sisters: you're the best!)
|Atop the Pyramid of the Sun in Mexico, with Paul.|
It was one year ago this month that we moved to Santa Cruz. Living in this jewel of a place has added extra sparkle to our lives.
|With friends a few blocks from our house.|
I'm grateful for my colleagues and my students, from whom I learn so much. I'm grateful for art, literature, and writing. This year I joined a fantastic writing group that's supporting my efforts at my next book, and I started my "Ask Dr. Kate" column.
|Skiing last week with good friends Matt, Stacey and twins Cole & Wyatt. (Stacey and I have been buds for 20 years.)|
My New Year's Resolution last year was to do something new every day. As of today I have fulfilled that resolution. In fact, it's become so second nature to say YES that most days I do a bunch of new things.
|Zip-lining on my 50th birthday extravaganza.|
I feel like I'm finally getting the hang of embracing life. Here's to relishing the moment and being excited for the future. Happy Holidays, everyone!